Belief in yourself

If you’re feeling shy or uncomfortable when you’re alone or in a crowded room, it’s most liking because you don’t believe in yourself.

Somewhere in life you were told things like, “You're wrong.” Or “Who do you think you are?” Or “No one believes you.”

Think about it…a little harder so you get the full effect. If you truly believed in yourself -

What would you be doing?Where would you be living? How much money would you be making?What’s something you would quit doing?What's something you would start doing?Who would you be hanging around with?Who wouldn't you be spending your precious time with?

Really think about these questions and answers and let yourself find out if you are where you truly want to be, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually.

If not, then you have a self limiting belief that’s holding you back. A belief that maybe you’re not good enough. Or no one loves me. Or I’m not smart enough.

These self limiting beliefs are holding you back. And they are going to make you feel unlovable and incapable.

Trust me I had plenty of my own self limiting beliefs that I had to shed in order to grow. It was necessary to step outside my comfort zone and expand my thinking.

I would recommend you grab a copy of the book You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay. This book is set up to resemble a private session with her, which can be very expensive in person.

But fortunately you do not have to pay them prices to reap the rewards. And trust me this book is truly life changing.

So it’s worth every penny you’ll pay for it. Because it surely won’t cost you anywhere near a private session. But it will change your belief in yourself.

This one book alone will have you laughing and crying. It will make you happy and sad. It will bring up emotions and feelings you haven't felt in a long time. Some are good and some are bad but there all necessary for you to experience a change inside of you.

It’s very powerful in helping you remove self limiting beliefs so that you can build a relationship with yourself and build belief in yourself. Two very key elements to a fulfilling and rewarding life. Which we all want, right?

It walks you through, step-by-step, to unlock the real you. The person who was abused. The child who grew up in an alcoholic family. The unloved step child. The unforgivable teenage daughter.

That’s not who you are at your core.

You’re a divine creature. A part of God. A master of your domain. The creator of your emperor.

You decide what your life is going to be about. You decide what you want to become. You decide if your current situation is positive and negative.

And with that power comes the power to change it all. Yes you can create a better life for yourself and your loved ones.

All you have to do is belief.

But belief in me is not going to help you believe in yourself.

But Louise Hay will. She helped me love and accept myself completely. When no one else did. She brought me face to face with my inner child. The one that was raised in an alcoholic family.

The child that was scared to “act up.” The child that pretended to be sleeping when her father came home from the bar drunk. The teenager that felt so ugly and unguided that she acted out by using drugs and alcohol.

Louise taught me that it’s okay to be frightened. That I can forgive myself for the things I did in the past and that in order for anyone else to love me I must first love myself.

I’m begging you to get a copy of Louise's book so that you too can peal back your tough layers from the past and live a much lighter and brighter present and future.

Take control of your life. Take control of your past by allowing it to be as it was and realizing that you no longer have to live your life from that place of hate and negativity.

There is a better way and that way is by having 100% belief in yourself and your ability to overcome hard times and learn from them.

It's normal for everyone to go through hard times. But not everyone using what they've learned to guide them in the present. Instead they allow the past to be a burden to them. A memory that keeps causing them pain and discomfort.

Don't be that person. Don't allow your past of your self limiting beliefs that hold you back from your progress.

Remember that change is automatic but progress is not.

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