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Healthy self esteem 
Question Why is it good to have healthy self esteem? Answer Having healthy self esteem is good because it is the foundation in which your …

How can I change myself? 
Question Last year, and now this year, I have watched my best friend change into somebody beautiful. She just decided, 'I don't like who I am, so …

Where do I start with building my self esteem? 
Question Hi there, I have been spending hours on your site here today and for good reason. I am at a place in life where my lack of self esteem has …

Positive Outlook 
Question I am coming from a divorce and unhappy marriage for a number of years. Since then the amount of financial, family (I have raised) pressures …

Building self esteem after leaving an abusive relationship. 
Question I am separated from my husband after eleven years of physical, emotional and mental abuse. How do I build my self esteem again after years …

How can I change my mental image? 
Question How do you change your mental image from what you see to what others see? Answer The way YOU see yourself is more important then …

What authors or what self help books are best for beginners? 
Question What authors or what self help books are best for beginners? Answer The best book that I can recommend for anyone on his or her personal …

Am I worth the trouble? 
Question Where do I start on this path to rebuilding my self esteem? Answer First, you determine who you are and then you decide who you want …

Can GOD help me build my self esteem? 
Question I was wondering if God could help me with my self esteem issues. Seriously I have tried everything from reading books to attending counseling. …

39 year old mom with NO FRIENDS... Not rated yet
Question How can I have self-confidence when I am a 39-year-old mom with ADHD with a learning disability and I have not ONE friend???? Answer …

happy alone ? Not rated yet
Question Why do I feel like I have to be in a relationship? Even if it's an unhealthy one? Why can't I be happy and content alone ? Answer …

I have been suffering from low self-esteem for many years... Not rated yet
Question Hi, I am 33 years old, and I have been suffering from low self-esteem for many years---probably my entire life. My self-esteem may have improved …

Can low self-esteem be an addiction? Not rated yet
Question Can you be addicted to low self-esteem? In a sick and twisted way, I think I might find satisfaction in beating up the little self worth …

Trouble Not rated yet
Question I am very good at interpreting my own feelings and am well on my way to overcome depression. I have a crush on my best friend who is …

Unconsciously need love and approval from everyone. Not rated yet
Question I am a child of a completely dysfunctional family. Violent alcoholic father, co-dependent mother alcoholic/drug addicted brother. Brought …

Why am I invisible? Not rated yet
Question I used to be extremely shy, and I have built my confidence greatly listening to Tony Robbins tapes. I have now been a docent volunteer …

I really want my life to change, because I can't live like this anymore.  Not rated yet
Question Hi Michelle, thanks for putting up this website. I don't know where to start. I'm 26 and I feel hopeless right now. My boyfriend just broke …

How long is a person required to do the self esteem building? Not rated yet
Question Hello I am wondering how long is a person required to do the self esteem building? what would you say about how often it should be done for …

How do I learn to love myself? Not rated yet
Question My parents were in their late 40's when I was born and I really don't think I was planned. My mother suffered from severe depression and …

I get picked on at school how do I deal with this? Not rated yet
Question I am a 15 year old girl my name is Sarah and I am in foster care its hard and I get picked on at school how do I deal with this? Answer …

How do I change the way they think of me for the best? Not rated yet
Question I recently started doing bad things over the internet, things that could go around school and ruin my life. I know I shouldn’t like what …

Building self esteem that was crushed many years ago......... Not rated yet
Question How/where do I start to build my self esteem from past experiences.....father left at a very young age and in 1st marriage (over 20 yrs. …

Lost in Pa Not rated yet
Question I need help learning how to find out who I am. My self esteem has always been low. I have had divorce, being single mom to breast cancer …

Adversity Not rated yet
Question How do I build my self worth when my peers are constantly putting me down? Answer You must start by building a deep love for yourself. …

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Is it true.....That I cannot change?can I? Not rated yet
Question I'm a 16 years old guy, living somewhere in the east. I'm living a wonderful life now; well...It’s not exactly wonderful. No, it's quite …

I want to change myself Not rated yet
Question I'm a pretty messed up kid. I'm 16, and I'm adopted. I've grown up in a dysfunctional family, with parents who fight all the time and take …

I sometimes suffer from low self esteem and feel not enough  Not rated yet
Question Hello, My name is Prem Tolani. Im 35 yrs old. I sometimes suffer from low self esteem. I many times feel I am less smarter than others. …

I can't seem to let go Not rated yet
Question Hey, I was just looking at your site because I have had self esteem issues since I was very young. I've been VERY hard on myself. I have …

Will building my self esteem help with my shyness? Not rated yet
Question Hi, I have found this site and I wish it will change my behavior, I am very shy person. Will building my self esteem help with my shyness? …

Meditation or relaxation teachings?  Not rated yet
Question Is meditation or relaxation teachings a part of building self esteem? Answer Yes and no. I would not recommend these activities to …

How to look for work WITHOUT it damaging your self esteem. Not rated yet
Question Hi, I just found this site and like it a lot. What is really bringing me down on myself is the fact that I am having such a hard time finding …

I need help, big time. Not rated yet
Question I have always been an extreme worrier. Ever since I was young I have worried about anything and everything and it almost always comes down …

Possible? Not rated yet
Question I have had this problem since childhood, I believe as a result of sexual molestation around before I was school age. I see it. I see the …

Learning disibility and self esteem Not rated yet
Question How does a person with a learning disability go about raising their self esteem in that learning area? Answer To raise your self …

How to completely change yourself Not rated yet
Question I have been going in the wrong direction for most of my life. I've made some really bad choices. And I've done some really bad things. …

How do I get it? Not rated yet
Question Why do I become numb and cannot think of anything interesting to say, or doubt myself and am not comfortable around people specifically a …

How to start? Not rated yet
Question I fight everyday to become the person I once was. But it seems like everyday she slips farther and farther away. I get one step up and something …

Self esteem definition Not rated yet
Question What is your self esteem definition? Answer Loving and accepting myself completely just the way I am! Now I want to hear your …

Self esteem journal Not rated yet
Question How will writing in a journal help me build my self esteem? You talk a lot about journaling and I was just curious as to how that would help …

destruction Not rated yet
Question Somehow I want to believe I can recover. But I feel so beaten down, not so much by my abuser so much as knowing that I saw it happening and …

What is one thing I can do daily to build my self esteem? Not rated yet
Question If you could only give me one thing to do on a daily basis to build my self esteem what would it be? Answer Smile:) It's hard to …

What is the one personal development program that really turned your life around? Not rated yet
For me it was The Physiology of Achievement. I've talked about this program numerous times on this site but really it grab my attention and helped me make …

What is the one book you believe turned your life around? Not rated yet
The one book that has helped me out the most was Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. This is such a timeless classic that I would recommend that anyone …

how to start? Not rated yet
Question I don't know how to start to build self-esteem, I don't even know what it means, or what to do with it once I get it. Answer Start …

How to feel better Not rated yet
Question How can I boost esteem when in an emotionally abusive relationship? Answer First of all I want you to do an exercise where you take a …

Building good relationships with others Not rated yet
Question How can you build your self esteem and build agood relationship with any type of individual? Answer Thank you for asking the …

Self esteem buddy Not rated yet
Question Is it easier to build your self esteem with a buddy? Answer Yes and no. Sure it might be easier if you had someone to keep you …

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