Positive Outlook 
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I am coming from a divorce and unhappy marriage for a number of years. Since then the amount of financial, family (I have raised) pressures ...

How can I change my mental image? 
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How do you change your mental image from what you see to what others see?

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The way YOU see yourself is more important then ...

Am I worth the trouble? 
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Where do I start on this path to rebuilding my self esteem?


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First, you determine who you are and then you decide who you want ...

Can GOD help me build my self esteem? 
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I was wondering if God could help me with my self esteem issues. Seriously I have tried everything from reading books to attending counseling....

Lost in Pa  Not rated yet
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I need help learning how to find out who I am. My self esteem has always been low.

I have had divorce, being single mom to breast cancer ...

Adversity  Not rated yet
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How do I build my self worth when my peers are constantly putting me down?

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You must start by building a deep love for yourself....

Is it true.....That I cannot change?can I?  Not rated yet
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I'm a 16 years old guy, living somewhere in the east.

I'm living a wonderful life now; well...It’s not exactly wonderful. No, it's quite ...

Building self esteem after leaving an abusive relationship.  Not rated yet
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I am separated from my husband after eleven years of physical, emotional and mental abuse. How do I build my self esteem again after years ...

I want to change myself  Not rated yet
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I'm a pretty messed up kid. I'm 16, and I'm adopted. I've grown up in a dysfunctional family, with parents who fight all the time and take ...

I sometimes suffer from low self esteem and feel not enough   Not rated yet
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Hello, My name is Prem Tolani. Im 35 yrs old. I sometimes suffer from low self esteem.

I many times feel I am less smarter than others....

I can't seem to let go  Not rated yet
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Hey, I was just looking at your site because I have had self esteem issues since I was very young.

I've been VERY hard on myself. I have ...

Meditation or relaxation teachings?   Not rated yet
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Is meditation or relaxation teachings a part of building self esteem?

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Yes and no. I would not recommend these activities to ...

What authors or what self help books are best for beginners?  Not rated yet
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What authors or what self help books are best for beginners?

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The best book that I can recommend for anyone on his or her personal ...

How to look for work WITHOUT it damaging your self esteem.  Not rated yet
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Hi, I just found this site and like it a lot. What is really bringing me down on myself is the fact that I am having such a hard time finding ...

I need help, big time.  Not rated yet
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I have always been an extreme worrier. Ever since I was young I have worried about anything and everything and it almost always comes down ...

Possible?  Not rated yet
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I have had this problem since childhood, I believe as a result of sexual molestation around before I was school age. I see it. I see the ...

Learning disibility and self esteem  Not rated yet
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How does a person with a learning disability go about raising their self esteem in that learning area?

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To raise your self ...

How to completely change yourself  Not rated yet
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I have been going in the wrong direction for most of my life. I've made some really bad choices. And I've done some really bad things.


I ...

How do I get it?  Not rated yet
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Why do I become numb and cannot think of anything interesting to say, or doubt myself and am not comfortable around people specifically a ...

How to start?  Not rated yet
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I fight everyday to become the person I once was. But it seems like everyday she slips farther and farther away. I get one step up and something ...

Self esteem definition  Not rated yet
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What is your self esteem definition?

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Loving and accepting myself completely just the way I am!

Now I want to hear your ...

Self esteem journal  Not rated yet
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How will writing in a journal help me build my self esteem? You talk a lot about journaling and I was just curious as to how that would help ...

destruction  Not rated yet
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Somehow I want to believe I can recover. But I feel so beaten down, not so much by my abuser so much as knowing that I saw it happening and ...

What is one thing I can do daily to build my self esteem?  Not rated yet
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If you could only give me one thing to do on a daily basis to build my self esteem what would it be?

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Smile:) It's hard to ...

What is the one personal development program that really turned your life around?  Not rated yet
For me it was The Physiology of Achievement. I've talked about this program numerous times on this site but really it grab my attention and helped me make ...

What is the one book you believe turned your life around?  Not rated yet
The one book that has helped me out the most was Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. This is such a timeless classic that I would recommend that anyone ...

how to start?  Not rated yet
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I don't know how to start to build self-esteem, I don't even know what it means, or what to do with it once I get it.

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Start ...

How to feel better  Not rated yet
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How can I boost esteem when in an emotionally abusive relationship?

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First of all I want you to do an exercise where you take a ...

Building good relationships with others  Not rated yet
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How can you build your self esteem and build agood relationship with any type of individual?

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Thank you for asking the ...

Self esteem buddy  Not rated yet
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Is it easier to build your self esteem with a buddy?

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Yes and no.

Sure it might be easier if you had someone to keep you ...